I am writing a new book...for women. The current working title is How to Find Your Kink and Please Your Man.
The impetus for this book comes from the relatively large number of men I have met who say to me, I wish my wife/girlfriend/lover, etc. was more like you. By which I assume they mean willing to try anything once. Either that or they are referring to my willingness to be spanked. Either way...it falls into the kink category.
I have already polled my social network friends, but since my blog receives almost 1000 hits a day now, and I only have 600 social network friends, I am asking the rest of you:
WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM YOUR WOMAN?
I will take any and all answers, any and all comments. I want to be sure to be thorough here, so please let me know. The book will be desigened to encourage ladies to let go of their inhibitions and place themselves into your hands, capable or not, so that together you can explore your kinky sides.
So gents...lay it on me.
Emily
That is a huge question, Emily but you have already answered it, as far as I am concerned!
ReplyDeleteI love my wife to bits but would love her to abandon her inhibitions and throw off the trappings of convention so that we could explore all kinds of kink together.
That seems to represent your books 'mission statement' :)
It is not a question of specifics (i.e. 'I would like her to let me spank her, etc) but of attitude towards a mutual exploration of the non-convention.
Let me know when you publish and I will sneak a copy on to my wifes book shelf :)
goood question not sure what I want or how to go about getting it.I guess a willimgness to try new things would be nice and act with interest and not always wear the "comfortable " out fit to bed . And maybe lose the "american ' attitude and relax a bit
ReplyDeleteI want her to let me spank her when I want too
ReplyDeleteI want open and honest. I know that, in a relationship with dom-sub elements, there's a lot of desire in her that I figure things out and take control without her having to explain her every want and need. However, her wants and needs are what interest me. I don't really get off on controlling her in any way that isn't right for her. I want a woman who has very strong desires, kinky desires, and is not only open about sharing her "secrets" but actually is turned on by the act of communicating her passions, no matter how unusual or unconventional they might be. I think that's one of my favorite things about kinkiness, the special quality of intimacy that goes into the connection. Sharing her true inner desires is the greatest gift. Of course, ideally, we share many complementary desires, but that shouldn't be a limiting factor. How we choose to express ourselves or act on our knowledge of each other is something to be discovered.
ReplyDeleteMy wife gave her consent to let me spank her a couple of years ago. I have done it, but the problem is, she will submit her body but not her mind. She is so resistant, I want her to submit herself, not just her body.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I want to know her feelings. She keeps them to herself.
She has many good points but is hard to love because she is very self-contained.